Saturday, November 13, 2010

Why Aung Sung Suu Kyi Embodies the Collective Burmese Spirit






By now, you've likely heard of Aung Sung Suu Kyi's long overdue release from detention imposed by the military junta in Burma. Her beautiful serene face has been all over the news; the same face that invokes a deep seeded hatred and fear from her oppressors. Her quest: to gain freedom for her people through democracy. Starting from this pure intention, she has become an inspirational leader loved by the Burmese and revered by world leaders.

Her propensity to lead goes back to her roots. In the 1940s, her father was a general in the Communist Party who played a leading role in the movement to free Burma from British colonial rule. Six months before he could witness the fruits of his labor, he was assassinated. He is considered a hero by the Burmese. The period following his death was filled with instability. Suu Kyi returned in the late 80s and became of the face of the National League Democracy (NLD). A democratic election was held where her party won. Shortly after, she was detained along with the majority of the party members.

In 2006, I was fortunate to visit Burma. My first impression is from the Rangoon airport which was empty, dated, and stuck in a time warp from a colonial era. There was a line of cab drivers waiting in the blistering sun for a fare and us, the two lone foreigners looking for a ride. Usually, catching a ride from the airport stresses me out in Asia because there always seems to be commotion , lively shouting matches for business, and a general feeling that we will get ripped off . To our pleasant surprise, we were politely approached by a driver who ushered us into his cab. There were no arguments amongst the drivers for our business. All of this was a far cry from its next door neighbor Thailand.

I distinctly remember the cab ride. Our driver spoke perfect English so we started exchanging some small talk. I commented on his English and learnt that it was common for Burmese over the age of 30 to be fluent. They had been very well educated by the British but the state of education declined post-colonialism. Today's Burmese youth have been brought up on old textbooks and are not permitted to learn English. At this point, we thought it would be wise not to go much deeper into politics. We had been warned in our guide books that Burmese could be detained and punished if they spoke negatively about the military junta so we just let the conversation flow at his rate. He peered in his rear view mirror and then from side to side, as though to check if the coast was clear to go on about the political state. He shared his disdain for the military; how the few with military connections prospered while the rest of the country suffered from poverty and lack of progress. He expressed his hopes that Suu Kyi would be freed soon and capped off our ride with a warm smile. This was my first glimpse at the Burmese spirit.

During my trip, I saw more of the same: old decaying infrastructure, trains that rocked from side to side like boats, cars from another era peppered with the rare luxury SUV with government plates, generators powering buildings during mandated power outages, pick-up trucks acting as transit packed with up to 20 people including 10 on the roof. Whereas Suu Kyi was detained in her 'lakeside mansion', the Burmese are trapped in their country. They cannot leave unless they escape illegally to become second rate citizens in neighboring countries. They can't even move freely in their own country. During an overnight bus ride, our bus was stopped two or three times at checkpoints where everyone had to exit the bus with bleary and weary eyes.

They have coped with this with the most admirable strength. They are proud people who do not show vulnerability in the face of adversity. One day in Mandalay, we wanted to visit a historical site that was only accessible by boat. To get to the dock, we had to take a tri-shaw which is a rickshaw with two seats motored by pedal power. Our driver Jo Suu was a skinny wiry man. We felt horrible that he had to pedal 300+ pounds of our body weight in the blazing sun for what turned out to be quite far but he wouldn't accept our offer to get off and walk. We rolled along on our journey. Suddenly, we were being pulled over by a traffic cop. He had apparently crossed the intersection illegally even though it felt like we had crossed quite safely through an unmarked intersection. As a result, he was given a fine. We found the situation totally unjust but Jo Suu just brushed it off with a dignified air. It wasn't the first time that he had been treated like this. His story is tragic. Previously, he had been a supervisor at the docks where his family lived in an idyllic lakeside community. One day, the rug was pulled out from under him. The government decreed that all residents living around the docks would have to relocate their homes to a location that was only accessible by boat with no facilities. To make matters worse, he arrived at work where he was told that he was no longer needed as his post which had now been given to the son of a military official. He told this story to us without emotion. Whatever anger he had was probably buried under the weight of a junta that would never make things right for him. Later on in the day, Jo Suu looked tired. We asked him if anything was wrong and he finally told us that he had been suffering from diarrhea all day. We couldn't bare to go on any further but we were stuck in the middle of nowhere. Rather than abandoning us as he really could have, he went out of his way to find another driver to take us home. We parted ways with the understanding that we would see him the next day where we could pay him extra for his efforts. Unfortunately, he didn't show up. We suspect that he was actually very sick. That day, I felt completely unworthy compared to the selfless way that he had carried himself.

On the surface, the Burmese are proud, amiable, and calm. Beneath the facade is a pain that they seem to have diverted to a ranging spring of hope. Suu Kyi embodies the collective Burmese spirit; their nature, pain, hopes, and dreams.

Keep a close watch on Suu Kyi in the months to come and send your positive energy to her. She will need it in the turbulent environment that she is and will be skillfully navigating.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

A Contribution to Life's Recipes


The art of achievement came back to me this past Canada Day long weekend. It felt so hugely amazing that I'm inspired to want more of it in all aspects of my life.

The trigger for this wasn't very extraordinary. It happened on my mountain bike at Silver Star Mountain in Vernon. I've been mountain biking for the last 5 years at varying levels of success and mostly with an injury. Usually, I get really nervous on the day of the ride with my mind racing all over the place, mostly at the worst place of self doubt. Instead of my usual mode, I was really good! Every drop, jump, and wall ride, I hit with full gusto and landed smoothly. I am shocked to believe that I did all of that!

A few key ingredients together to work out in my favor to create the perfect recipe for my achievement that day.

My Version of a Recipe for Achievement:

1) Envision What You Want
I wanted to feel good about landing the drop. This is very different from wanting to land the jump. If I only wanted to land the jump, I would only picture myself hitting the ground with my two wheels. What I really wanted was to feel confident from start to finish so I pictured myself gripping the bars, taking the drop with speed, and then landing.

Some people dream about the end result hoping that it will bring them happiness, success, and fulfillment. It could be a house with a white picket fence, having a lot of money, marrying the Ken doll dreamboat, etc. The question is "how" are you going to get there? Spend more time envisioning the steps it will take and then act out those steps. By taking mindful steps, you might be capable of reaching your end result or even ending up with something surprisingly better.

2) Lean on Your Team
My crew of Nico, Simon, and Zidra each played equally important roles to help me succeed. Nico coached and watched me, Simon used humor and high fives to ease my nerves, and Zidra gave me inspiration to follow her lead of fearlessly doing every trick. And all together, they dished out so many positive comments that made me feel humble but so good.

We all need support crews to help us excel. These are the special people that take the form of our friends, parents, lover, children, and community. DIY (do it yourself) will only take you to your personal limit but doing it with others will stretch you beyond your capabilities. And it's a bonus that it feels so fulfilling to collectively share in an experience!

3) Focus, Focus, Focus
On the morning of my rides, my mind was quietly calm. The mental chatter of 'I can't do that, sure I can do that, maybe I'll crumple when I land, did I leave the stove on, and on and on' wasn't there. All I could think about was 'I can do it, I will do it'. Mirroring my mental focus was an equally strong physical presence instead of the Gumby-like limbs that I normally have.

I believe that I was able to focus because of some skills I have been practicing in my deepened yoga practice. At the start of class, my teacher often reminds us to leave our stresses and worries 'off the mat'; to feel our quality of breath and to honor what our bodies desire in the moment. To no surprise, off my mat, I find I take this lesson into my everyday life.

4) Let Go Of Your Brakes
Metaphorically and physically, I released my brakes and allowed myself to soar off the jump. At this point, there was not much to do except entrust that I had prepared myself well enough to land it. I didn't flop like a rag doll. Quite the opposite, I experienced an intoxicating surge of success!

We all have differing degrees of risk tolerance. I straddle the line between risk adverse and risky. To grow, I believe that you have to trust that you have it in yourself to throw caution to the wind and put yourself out there. Regardless of the result, there is always a valuable lesson learnt in taking risk that has great potential to enable future growth. I have personally witnessed this growth in a number of people who normally would squeeze their brakes until their hands turned blue, and the results are truly inspirational.

There are many recipes out there so this is only one of them from my life cooking book. It's down home, hearty, basic, and worked out just deliciously for me. Maybe it's just right or it will need a special ingredient, but I won't know that until the next step along this exhilarating life journey. For now, I'll just savor in what I've got.

Note: I only took mental snapshots so for lack of a better picture, I am pretending to dive into the lake. I successfully avoided diving in.